He’s in his thirties and married, with children, so I know we can’t be together. I’d babysit for them a
couple of years ago.
Another neighbour had a party at New Year and I made a real effort to look my best. My friend helped me buy a bodycon dress and did my make-up and hair for me. Even she was amazed, as I’m normally a «jeans and T-shirt» girl. My plan was to seduce this guy at the party.
I spoke to him and his wife and had a few drinks, sneaking outside to the summer house to top up from a bottle I’d hidden there. Next thing I knew, we were kissing. He put his hand up my dress and said I was gorgeous.
We had sex in the summer house. We were outside for ages but no one noticed. I went home feeling
A few days later, he came round when my mum and dad were out. He said he wanted us to go on meeting up and to go to his in ten minutes.
Every time I try to talk about it, he changes the subject but we end up in bed again.
I can’t talk to my parents about it and I really don’t know what to do.
Don’t waste time fretting or hoping he is going to show some sense of responsibility.
It won’t happen and you urgently need to find out if you really are pregnant – then make some realistic decisions. My e-leaflet Unplanned Pregnancy explains where you can find practical support.
If you are pregnant, there is no chance of a lasting relationship with this guy, or giving the child a stable start in life with two caring parents.